Any one friends with Sour?

[Shadow Step]

Response from Sour today, "I do not care any longer. I've given up Central, those there, and any chance to be friends with anyone anymore."

Sorry.

That's unfortunate. Well if he ever wants to come back he is more than welcome.

Hope is just a tantrum .
But right now it probably time can tell what will happend in the end .

This certainly isn't the first time he's done and said these things. Whether it's for good this time or not is certainly up to him.

[CPsSecretLover]

This has really saddened me...I was very happy when he seemed to be opening up to people, and then he just...left. I sincerely hope he finds happiness somewhere, be it here or elsewhere. As Whoba said, he’s certainly welcome back anytime he wants.

[Rares]

Response from Sour today, "I do not care any longer. I've given up Central, those there, and any chance to be friends with anyone anymore."

Sorry.

I hope one day he knows how angry I am with him for saying that. If I ever want to speak to him again that is. That breaks everything I trusted in him, and I'm sick.

[Shadow Step]

Response from Sour today, "I do not care any longer. I've given up Central, those there, and any chance to be friends with anyone anymore."

Sorry.

I hope one day he knows how angry I am with him for saying that. If I ever want to speak to him again that is. That breaks everything I trusted in him, and I'm sick.

I know it's rough. Sometimes I don't think he realizes, or perhaps he genuinely does not care, how his actions make others feel. But we must simply continue without him. He may return one day, and if he does we can discuss things with him then. Until then he seems content to also avoid me as much as he can.

[OZ the pony]

I hope one day he knows how angry I am with him for saying that. If I ever want to speak to him again that is. That breaks everything I trusted in him, and I'm sick.

I know it's rough. Sometimes I don't think he realizes, or perhaps he genuinely does not care, how his actions make others feel. But we must simply continue without him. He may return one day, and if he does we can discuss things with him then. Until then he seems content to also avoid me as much as he can.

Raras is angry with him ? So you have a lot of expect on him ?
I can't say don't have ... when he was back to here , he keep saying don't want to be friend or something ... it make me unsure a lot . Sometime think he don't want friends is a lie sometime think he is serious about this . So can't say his leave not give me a surprised ... more like feel a bit prepare for this .


So ... he used to be core-member ? Can make Raras very angry .

[Shadow Step]

I know it's rough. Sometimes I don't think he realizes, or perhaps he genuinely does not care, how his actions make others feel. But we must simply continue without him. He may return one day, and if he does we can discuss things with him then. Until then he seems content to also avoid me as much as he can.

Raras is angry with him ? So you have a lot of expect on him ?
I can't say don't have ... when he was back to here , he keep saying don't want to be friend or something ... it make me unsure a lot . Sometime think he don't want friends is lie a sometime think he is serious about this . So can't say his leave not give me a surprised ... more like feel a bit prepare for this .


So ... he used to be core-member ? Can make Raras very angry .

I have personally never understood his anti friend stance. I think it settles from a place where he's been held to standards he couldn't or wouldn't live up to and had it turned on him. The kind of thing where people go, "Aren't you my friend?" to get you to do something you wouldn't want to do. I think. Even as someone that has known him for years he is still somewhat of an enigma to me. Apart from his desire to draw and love for Amena.

[Rares]

Raras is angry with him ? So you have a lot of expect on him ?
I can't say don't have ... when he was back to here , he keep saying don't want to be friend or something ... it make me unsure a lot . Sometime think he don't want friends is a lie sometime think he is serious about this . So can't say his leave not give me a surprised ... more like feel a bit prepare for this .


So ... he used to be core-member ? Can make Raras very angry .

The reason I'm angry stems from the fact that when we talked, we both seemed to agree that it really hurts the community as a whole when people make a show about leaving or no longer posting, and do these kind of "goodbye forever" things, because it affects everyone. So in a way it feels like such a stab in the back fot him to turn around and do that. That's why this makes me upset.

[Shadow Step]

The reason I'm angry stems from the fact that when we talked, we both seemed to agree that it really hurts the community as a whole when people make a show about leaving or no longer posting, and do these kind of "goodbye forever" things, because it affects everyone. So in a way it feels like such a stab in the back fot him to turn around and do that. That's why this makes me upset.

Ugh, that is true, and it makes whoever left seem like a massive drama queen. To be fair, we have a "Farewell" box for some reason though. The original planners were clearly aware of these kinds of people and accommodated them. I say, knowing exactly who planned it. XD

But yes, I can see your side of things. Complaining about one type of person and then doing exactly that is hypocritical even in the best of scenarios. Can't say I'm immune to some hypocrisy sometimes myself, but that is neither here nor there. What is here is that I'm amazed he talked about it because if I am not mistaken it's not even the first time he's done it here. After his original account was completely wiped I believe the first thing he said with his new one was "I'm gone forever, I can't believe my old stuff was wiped. Good bye." And then he came back after a year or so. It's just ... a little funny to me.

[Kaltes-Herzeleid]

Even as someone that has known him for years he is still somewhat of an enigma to me.

Same. I made an effort not to pry too much into his life because I just wasn't sure how he would react. I was generally the only person he seemed comfortable enough with to call a friend (I know he had some kind of falling out with Ziggy) so it came out of left field to me as well.

But in the end I can't say I'm too shocked. He's disappeared at least three or four times since I've been a part of this community.

[Rares]

Ugh, that is true, and it makes whoever left seem like a massive drama queen. To be fair, we have a "Farewell" box for some reason though. The original planners were clearly aware of these kinds of people and accommodated them. I say, knowing exactly who planned it. XD

But yes, I can see your side of things. Complaining about one type of person and then doing exactly that is hypocritical even in the best of scenarios. Can't say I'm immune to some hypocrisy sometimes myself, but that is neither here nor there. What is here is that I'm amazed he talked about it because if I am not mistaken it's not even the first time he's done it here. After his original account was completely wiped I believe the first thing he said with his new one was "I'm gone forever, I can't believe my old stuff was wiped. Good bye." And then he came back after a year or so. It's just ... a little funny to me.

Yeah. I guess I just need to forget about it, as I've just been rather unwell in general recently and this hasn't helped at this second.