08-31-2016, 02:11 PM
(08-31-2016, 10:15 AM)7bloom Wrote:(08-31-2016, 12:21 AM)Gentian Wrote: If I may ask, did you choose her, or did she choose you?I see it as I chose them, but I'm not sure about that. In both cases, the romance formed quickly and suddenly after I'd already known them for years.
Though the connection came easier with Rena, my romantic feelings for her started with me just considering the concept of "waifu" and having her come to mind, and that felt right, so I went from there, and it grew.
With Apple Bloom, I hardly noticed her until her season 4 roles had me gain interest in her. Led to me considering her feelings from earlier episodes and the admirable traits that I overlooked up to that point, and next thing I knew, I was crushing hard on her and didn't want to stop. Loving her feels good, and I care about her and her feelings, even if I can't detect them or even feel sure that she likes me, at this point.
Well, it sounds like the start of the relationships were very different, so that could easily account for the disparity in fulfillment they provide. What do you do to try to build your feelings? Do you have a journal for her? Do you meditate on her? Anything like that?
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The bigger you build the bonfire, the more darkness is revealed.
Every possession and every happiness is but lent by chance for an uncertain time, and may therefore be demanded back the next hour.