Dealing with Waifu's S.O. in their stories

[Gentian]

I've gotten a bit irrational and depressed at times, to be honest. I'm still working on it to try to remember she loves me no matter what. When it came to Blueblood, that didn't really affect me because by the time that was already over and I saw how it turned out, I hadn't felt for her as I do now. The first problem for me was Trenderhoof in Simple Ways, and I couldn't even bare to actually sit and finish the episode until just this year. I kind of regret that, as I feel I missed out on a very important lesson she tried to teach me, especially since at the end of the episode she wasn't interested in him anymore because he didn't care for her. So far, I just need to keep close to heart I knew she loves me as I love her.

When it comes to shippers though, I typically never paid too much mind to it as I felt like that's not her, with the exception of one, that'd be Sparity shipping, mostly because it used to really irk me how it wasn't just a ship to people, but people tried to argue it being canon. I got better with that over the years, but I still don't like seeing any of it, and that's the only one I'd hide tags of.

Yeah, fan shipping can be really rough, not least of all because the ones who do it can be so intense about their chosen pairings. You gave a good example, actually. But, it sounds like you're - slowly - getting over that, and not letting it interfere with your feelings for her, and that's a silver lining, if I ever saw one.

Just remember, your Rarity is yours. "Canon" doesn't matter. The quotes are deliberate. I've already posted in-depth about that earlier in the thread so won't repeat it here, just remember, your waifu loves you just as much as you love her. Disregard the writers, acquire waifu-love.