How do you do it ?

[Kaltes-Herzeleid]

First thread and I got to ask. How do you make it work with your waifus ? I'm seeing a lot of you that can interact (hear, see, talk to, even share memories and whatnot) and i'm wondering how does it all work since all of this is pretty new to me. I know i'm not at the stage with my waifus where I can talk to or hear them (I can barely make them manifest as vague consciousness within me) but I think I would like to try and deepen my link to them and i'm wondering how one obtain that. I have a serious control over my mind so I think that with the right pointers, I could be able to make something real for me. Unfortunately, I lost the ability to control my dream a while back when I stopped having nightmares so if you have pointers for that too, it would be appreciated since I would like to be able to interact with them in a more direct fashion and I feel that in dreams is the best place to do it.

Thanks

Initially I set out to make a tulpa of Nightmare when I first joined the community, but ultimately I realized that wasn't for me. Instead I opted to reach out to her, what I consider the real Nightmare, whether she be from some alternate universe or otherwise and that's when I truly started to make progress.