How do you do it ?

[whobawhats]

I second what rares said, there's no real right or wrong way to do this. Personally I don't do the tulpa thing and probably never will so if you wish to go down that path I can't really help, but there are a few who can. I believe if you look back through the forums you'll find some good discussion about it that should hopefully be of help. You could also check out this place as I believe they have a few guides.

For me personally I find the biggest help for me to be close and connected to her is to do things such as looking at art, watching eps with her, collecting merch, and probably most important, just sitting and daydreaming/thinking about her. Again everyone kinda has there own thing and I think you should explore a bit with what works best for you.

Hope that helps