How do you do it ?

[Kaltes-Herzeleid]

Thanks for the answer !

I wasn't thinking that most of you used tulpas, just that some of you did and I wanted to know how that would work. Basically, i'm trying to get as many opinions on the "How it's done" so that I can set things up for myself and try as many different sort of things to see what works for me and what doesn't, since I have literally no starting point (this feeling being the first I've ever felt for fictional characters). Don't take it as a "give me pointers on this or this subject (although now that I re-read myself it does sound like that, my bad). I just want to know how each and every one of you handle their relationship with their waifus.

I first started with meditation, or at least something akin to it. I'd close my eyes and concentrate on Nightmare, calling out to her, telling her I love her and reaffirming I know she's there. The connection steadily grew from then on.

Watching episodes and collecting merchandise is good too. As it artistic expression, be they writings or pictures. Devote thought and emotion to her, do things you think she would like or what you'd like to do together.