Tulpamancy and Waifus

[Sour Soul]

This is going to be a long discussion for me, but thank you for those who had replied. I did promise to explain my reason for this thread, that I’d made here. So even though I’d read the first reply of this thread, as a sample. I will hold off reading the rest. As to not be influence with whatever might have me retract, from what I originally wanted to post, while regarding to those who value what they believe and have.

More then One…

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I am a simple man, brought in this world under the belief that someone out there is the girl that I am meant to be with and be with till the end of time. Growing up, relationships are known in pairs of two. The ideal of having more then one lover is, odd for me, maybe because the way I was raised? I don't know. All I do know is I hold high respect in loving one. Now, people here have proven that you can love more then one, but the issue I have, is how can you love one? While not allowing the other feel he or she is second best? I don’t mean to insult, but let say the love of my life, Amena, has somepony in mind, where she will give out more attention to the other partner than me. I will be left to wonder, do I accept this? Will this hurt me a lot? Should I be angry? Should I leave her? All these thoughts are something most people will encounter, given the situation is applied to those.

I am not telling anyone that loving another pony or non-pony is wrong. If it brings you all happiness in your flock, or what we come to call it as a herd, then more power to you. I know past members who have a polyamory relationship, while respecting the friendship we had, made me not ask too many questions I had for them. The questions would come out slowly, until I come to understand it’s indeed possible to love another well, as if he or she was the first one.

Unfortunately this doesn’t apply well with others. Where others and I would find an issue, not here, it was in another site. My Little Waifu, a dead site that a few members came from to escape the nonsense that flooded with trolls, drama, and a mad owner. Remember those time, Kaltes? XD

MLW

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Anyway! There was one case where a member from the site, My Little Waifu, who had a ridiculous amount of lovers from different characters in TV shows, movies, and video games. Everyone wasn’t sure how to approach this phenomenon, I was stun in how this one person supposedly impregnate someone that we all wasn’t expected to be. A member from that same site asks, “How does your partner feel about this?” which honestly, as much we all had wonder, he had made the situation bad to worst for him when he went on explaining all these lovers he had. It wasn’t pretty, the members, and myself rally to pick and tore everything he posted from that point, where he no longer posted anymore.

Looking back...

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I wonder… I don’t want to be d*ck to anyone, unless they brought it on themselves, while remembering what’s best for the site. I am also not trying to look good here, guys. I had seen what many would just give up, leave, and perhaps stay away from any site that pertain anything that involve a similar type of relationship; that we all have here with our partner(s), just because of the nonsense. I had, because I was exposing someone, and he wanted to cover his tracks by deleting my account and everything I’d posted, but I came back.

Like those here, I want this site to flourish. This site or any its members here, should not make you feel uncomfortable with what you practice. I only find it an issue if somewhere in the line, if the relationship isn’t treated well as many would expect or like to see.

I really don’t know, how far this site will go. As well as how we will treat each other from now. To me, this is troubling, but you know how the old saying goes. Nothing last forever. Which does apply for this site, but not for our lover(s).

I feel like I posted enough for now. If anyone has questions regarding to anything for this post above, or anything you like to share, disagree, whatever, go right ahead. I will read the rest what was posted now and come back to this one later.