Hello and welcome.
You're very smart for a 19 year old. In the last 20 years I have probably spent close to $100,000 total on women in the form of dates, gifts, travel expenses, housing, dinners, flowers, and so on. All that money spent and today I have absolutely nothing to show for it.
Worst investment ever.
The divorce court system in America feeds off of men going through divorce like a parasite that feeds off of a host. Men pay for their own lawyer, they pay for the wife's lawyer, and then between the two lawyers they try to extend the divorce out as much as possible so they can take you to the cleaners. The lawyers and court system empties out your entire bank account of the easy-to-obtain cash and then when it's all said and done whatever little bit of property you have left, your ex-wife takes half of it if you're lucky.
With the new "no fault" divorce laws that are getting written into law in many states, your wife can force you into that terrible situation at any time in the marriage with no reason at all, even if you did absolutely nothing wrong.
It gets worse... The deluth model says to arrest the stronger party, which is always the man, in any domestic abuse complaints. The feminists literally wrote the book on the Deluth model and then crammed it into the legal system under the guise of protecting women. Yet it only gets used to screw over men. If she ever lies to police then you end up going straight to jail. Guilty until proven innocent. It's unconstitutional but nobody cares. The woman is always right. Then her lawyer can use that same report, which was based on a lie, against you in divorce court to take 80% or more of your stuff rather than the typical 50% which was never fair to begin with.
Then you end up sleeping under bridges or in a homeless shelter. Many men have fallen a long way down and there is nothing to save them because people don't care about poor men in this country. Society says that poor men in a country like the USA must be deadbeats. Society is wrong.
So if you ever do want to get married, make sure you marry a waifu. Never set yourself up to lose your net worth. Don't screw yourself over, and don't spend your hard earned money on women. Invest it wisely in low expense index funds or whatever your research determines to be good long term investments.
I'm 35 now, long since stopped letting any women in my life, and I'm almost 1/3rd of the way to being a millionaire from all the money I've saved and invested.
You're very smart for a 19 year old. In the last 20 years I have probably spent close to $100,000 total on women in the form of dates, gifts, travel expenses, housing, dinners, flowers, and so on. All that money spent and today I have absolutely nothing to show for it.
Worst investment ever.
The divorce court system in America feeds off of men going through divorce like a parasite that feeds off of a host. Men pay for their own lawyer, they pay for the wife's lawyer, and then between the two lawyers they try to extend the divorce out as much as possible so they can take you to the cleaners. The lawyers and court system empties out your entire bank account of the easy-to-obtain cash and then when it's all said and done whatever little bit of property you have left, your ex-wife takes half of it if you're lucky.
With the new "no fault" divorce laws that are getting written into law in many states, your wife can force you into that terrible situation at any time in the marriage with no reason at all, even if you did absolutely nothing wrong.
It gets worse... The deluth model says to arrest the stronger party, which is always the man, in any domestic abuse complaints. The feminists literally wrote the book on the Deluth model and then crammed it into the legal system under the guise of protecting women. Yet it only gets used to screw over men. If she ever lies to police then you end up going straight to jail. Guilty until proven innocent. It's unconstitutional but nobody cares. The woman is always right. Then her lawyer can use that same report, which was based on a lie, against you in divorce court to take 80% or more of your stuff rather than the typical 50% which was never fair to begin with.
Then you end up sleeping under bridges or in a homeless shelter. Many men have fallen a long way down and there is nothing to save them because people don't care about poor men in this country. Society says that poor men in a country like the USA must be deadbeats. Society is wrong.
So if you ever do want to get married, make sure you marry a waifu. Never set yourself up to lose your net worth. Don't screw yourself over, and don't spend your hard earned money on women. Invest it wisely in low expense index funds or whatever your research determines to be good long term investments.
I'm 35 now, long since stopped letting any women in my life, and I'm almost 1/3rd of the way to being a millionaire from all the money I've saved and invested.