General Chatter

[Sentimental Gentleman]

What on earth do you think you messed up, Kaltes-Herzeleid? Nothing comes to mind for my part...

If you worry that you're bothering us talking about your ups and downs, I don't think you are; certainly you don't bother me. It's part of what you're going through, and it's never a bother to try to talk with you about what you're feeling. This wouldn't be a very great community if you didn't feel free to express yourself, now would it? And being part of a community means helping out all the wonderful people that make it up. People like you!

I'd worry more if you kept things to yourself, because then none of us would even have a CHANCE to offer up what help we could. So please don't worry about "messing things up." We care about you, and we want to be involved in your life, whether it's smooth sailing or a bumpy ride. No fair-weather friends here! And that's what friendship is all about! Love too...remember "for better or for worse, in sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer, etc., etc.?"

Or has something come up beyond the confines of the forum that you feel you "messed up?" If so, do you want to talk about it here? Maybe in the "advice" section? Maybe in a Private Message? Whatever it might be, you shouldn't isolate yourself; that'll only make things harder and more painful for you, and nobody and nopony wants that!