09-07-2015, 07:17 PM
Your relationship with a figment of your imagination is not worth throwing out your relationship with a real, living, feeling human being.
There are obvious inadequacies in your relationship with this girl, and they need to be discussed and fixed. Trying to have some weird sort of polygamy is not going to work, and is insulting to your girlfriend.
In essence, you are cheating on her with a fantasy. It boils down to either ridding yourself of this fantasy, or ridding yourself of this girlfriend.
I suggest therapy and psychoanalysis for both of you, and couples therapy as well. 12 years of a relationship is not worth being thrown down the drain for an imaginary purple pony.
Also, she sounds schizophrenic. I really highly advise therapy.
Two cents from a normie observer...
There are obvious inadequacies in your relationship with this girl, and they need to be discussed and fixed. Trying to have some weird sort of polygamy is not going to work, and is insulting to your girlfriend.
In essence, you are cheating on her with a fantasy. It boils down to either ridding yourself of this fantasy, or ridding yourself of this girlfriend.
I suggest therapy and psychoanalysis for both of you, and couples therapy as well. 12 years of a relationship is not worth being thrown down the drain for an imaginary purple pony.
Also, she sounds schizophrenic. I really highly advise therapy.
Two cents from a normie observer...