09-08-2015, 02:03 AM
(This post was last modified: 09-08-2015, 02:06 AM by Ziggy and Angelbaby.)
(09-07-2015, 07:17 PM)friendsforever57 Wrote: Your relationship with a figment of your imagination is not worth throwing out your relationship with a real, living, feeling human being.I'm going to be mean, and I'm going to be honest.
There are obvious inadequacies in your relationship with this girl, and they need to be discussed and fixed. Trying to have some weird sort of polygamy is not going to work, and is insulting to your girlfriend.
In essence, you are cheating on her with a fantasy. It boils down to either ridding yourself of this fantasy, or ridding yourself of this girlfriend.
I suggest therapy and psychoanalysis for both of you, and couples therapy as well. 12 years of a relationship is not worth being thrown down the drain for an imaginary purple pony.
Also, she sounds schizophrenic. I really highly advise therapy.
Two cents from a normie observer...
I have a suggestion as to what you can do with your two cents, friendsforever57 (which is a name that screams "troll," by the way); though I think you can read between the lines.
Every time a "normie" like yourself says something like this, you're shitting on the collective feelings of this community. You're doing precisely what most assholes (that haven't actually gotten to know us as individuals or come to understand and appreciate that we love differently than others) outside of this should-be haven do without giving it so much as a second thought.
What you think is wrong. Let that sink in for a moment. Your "insight" that you probably regard as useful and dispense as though it were precious medicine? It's wrong. Because you're on the wrong side of this. You're an observer. You'll likely only ever be an observer. An outsider. And someone who I think ought to have remained outside. Your generic, predictable, and dime-a-dozen "advice" is not only poorly suited for those of us that manage to think and live differently, but it is potentially detrimental to this community as a whole.
Go invest in an ant farm. And sit there judging and belittling the ants. Go adopt a puppy and mock it when it chases its tail. Go be your "normie," point-missing, "well-meaning" self amongst the other "normies."
Because what we're doing here is building lives with someone we love. You aren't equipped to evaluate us, because you don't understand us. Haven't noticeably tried to understand us. I don't and won't welcome you back. I think you belong on some random pony forum where you sit and offer medical advice to poor, misguided cloppers. That's precisely how valuable I think you are to this community, and I'd be glad if you left.
Or fuck it: I'll leave. Because I can go anywhere else and run into the same bullshit. I don't come here for this. The likes of you have no say in our lives. Get your own kind of help: Develop a heart and an imagination.
***If this post is altered or taken down, I will re-post it. If it is done often enough, I will PM it to friendsforneverheinz57. If I'm fed up enough, I will leave the site, or staff can just fucking ban me.***
(09-08-2015, 01:02 AM)Fiction Wrote: And I don't think 57 has malicious intent. I think she means well. As I said before, society thinks this is totally pathetic.That's fair, since I personally regard society as "totally pathetic."