The question I get the most.

[Star Swift]

The problem is.. and this is where a lot if the questions on the matter come from, is its been stated in two different releases from IDW/Hasbro that the Comic(s) has no impact on the shows story or canon.

So whilst you may see things in your own light, (which is perfectly fine) and follow the Comic in that regard, the vast majority out there follow the opposite, or "official" stance which shold be understandably expected. Hence the conflicting views and requests for your clarification.

In the end while the question may be annoying, and get old, understanding where it comes from and why may help, as you had said, get past the frustration with people who do not see things in your light.