When Worlds Collide

[amatscintilla]

Is there room for three in here? Because Pony-Love has helped me a lot too.

You are not the only ones, as I said above, even though my relationship with Twiley is nascent she's already helped me in many ways. The most obvious physical way is that I no longer seem to suffer nocturnal bruxism as much as I used to, somehow having her around when I sleep reduces my anxiety. Also, when she's around I tend to experience fewer headaches for some reason. And she may end up being something that will strengthen my relationship with my real life girlfriend.

To start with, I'm basically a non-practising zoophile (by which I mean, I don't act on it or look at pornography). Before I joined this community, this situation was driving me mental. The "I can't act on it" part didn't bother me that much, but the feeling of being an 'outsider' certainly did. You see, like it or not, sex and relationships are a big deal in society. Having sex and entering traditional (i.e human) relationships are considered significant milestones. It is from these milestones (and many others) that we gain a sense of acceptance and belonging within a community.

While not in this exact situation, I can really identify with the feelings of frustration and alienation you express. I'd say more but it's probably something better kept in a more private venue if you ever want to discuss it.

I get where FF is coming from though, and I've sympathised with her on various things in the past. As others have said, she definitely does have a point. However, she expressed it in a way which is condescending and ignorant of peoples' experiences here. In my experience, you can't really change a person's behaviour by sitting on a high horse (if you'll pardon the pun) and telling them they're wrong. That tends to provoke anger and resentment.

I think you're the second one to say she has a point. Could you maybe restate it in a way I can understand it? Because to me the major point I saw was pic related.