For your first question, aloe although I think friend, is the best way to describe aloe, as well as any other waifu in this community that aren't related to us.
I personally don't like it, because of just the way it's sounds. It makes us sound more like an object rather than a being with our own thoughts and emotions. I accept it though because to somepony that has no idea what we are, that's how we have to be explained, and even then that usually turns into a sensitive topic. Especially if we trust someone enough to open up to, and then they try to question myself, mother, either of them, or aloe. Last time that happened, it destroyed a friendship that we had. But around friends and places like this, I would much rather be referred to as Jamie's wife than a waifu or a tulpa.
I personally don't like it, because of just the way it's sounds. It makes us sound more like an object rather than a being with our own thoughts and emotions. I accept it though because to somepony that has no idea what we are, that's how we have to be explained, and even then that usually turns into a sensitive topic. Especially if we trust someone enough to open up to, and then they try to question myself, mother, either of them, or aloe. Last time that happened, it destroyed a friendship that we had. But around friends and places like this, I would much rather be referred to as Jamie's wife than a waifu or a tulpa.
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Jamie Ice Storm(Icy/waifu)
Princess Luna(Icy's mother) Mist Weaver(Icy's birth Mother)Meadow