11-27-2015, 05:19 PM
(11-27-2015, 04:23 PM)Kaltes-Herzeleid Wrote: This has been horrible fucking holiday. Work in the freezing weather and rain and all but be told I'm a failure by my mother.Sometimes, the world will shit on you. It doesn't mean you have to shit on you. I know how much it hurts when people make you feel worthless, but you mustn't let their words become a self-fulfilling prophecy. Instead, calm yourself for a while and put this out of your mind. Once you're back to normal, try and put her harshness to one side and examine whether there's merit to her concerns. If there is, then make it your mission to prove her wrong.
Happy fucking Thanksgiving right?
Parents will say nasty\unhelpful things sometimes. For the most part, it's not because they're bad people, it's because they're human and have flaws like anyone else. Try and remember that your Mother still loves you in spite of all this. Ultimately, she just wants what she thinks is best for you.