12-17-2015, 02:20 PM
(12-17-2015, 10:20 AM)Ziggy and Angelbaby Wrote: This should be a place you come to because you want to. I'd say something about giving back to the community, but both of you have already done plenty of that. Neither of you are under any obligation to post regularly, and you could take some time off to spend, even more closely, with your respective partners. Nobody's gonna think less of you for it. Hell, I took a several-month hiatus at one point. I don't feel I personally have to be here; I prefer spending time with Babe to talking about our time together. But, if I need to, I can share at Central. It's nice to have the option. Shouldn't have to feel like a duty or a chore or anything like that.
I do come here because I want too, generally. But at the same time it's not like I have any other choice right? Granted I post quite a bit on DeviantArt too, but I can't express as much as I can there as I can on here for safety reasons. Trust me I've been on the receiving end of cruelty on dA so I'm careful with what I say.
I've tried being friends with people, I've tried establishing connections, but the feeling is never mutual. Some all but spit it back in my face.